Breaking Social Barriers: George Washington's Rise to Prominence

Social Education

Washington lacked the higher education that most wealthy boys received at the time. Most wealthy 18th century fathers sent their young sons to boarding schools in Europe to receive a formal higher education. Washington, who lost his father at a young age, relied on a social education that emphasized character, manners, and morals to advance his social status.

Important Skills

In 18th century colonial America, surveying was a well-accepted occupation. Washington gained important experience when the Fairfax family’s invited him to their estate to be part of a surveying group.

The French and Indian War

Washington faced challenges and defeat while serving under the British Army during the Seven Years War. For example, recruiting and maintaining soldiers in the army was a significant challenge. Washington certainly faced failure when he surrendered Fort Necessity to French forces. However, Washington gained important skills. Among other things, he learned how to handle matters of supplies and how to deal with unruly soldiers. By dealing with Native Americans and foreign armies, he gained important diplomatic skills. This significant episode in Washington’s life also elevated his name in society.

George and Martha's Courtship

In March 1758, George Washington travelled to Williamsburg to visit the charming widow, Martha Dandridge Custis whom he might have met through mutual friends. Soon after their first visit, they began making preparations for their wedding.

There was no rush for Martha to remarry, since she was wealthy and capable of managing her late husband’s estate. Martha must have been sure that Washington was a worthy partner, when she chose to marry him. Martha also chose not to have a premarital contract drawn before their wedding. While it is likely that Washington was partly influenced by her significant wealth when he courted her, they were attracted to each other. He was already moderately wealthy and well-known. Furthermore, more colonists, at the time, were starting to place a greater emphasis on love as a basis for marriage. His marriage to Martha, nevertheless, introduced Washington to the most elite circles of Virginia’s society.